Unbranded batik dress, Fladeo shoes
Self-confession: I've never learnt this much about life and its unique people before as much as I have through ask.fm. I often get asked about people saying that they're insecure with their body size and for not being a size zero. Welp, you're asking the right person. Honestly, if you look back at my past, I was a huge mess that no society would accept me for who I was. Changing was needed, but I was too afraid because I didn't know who I was going to be if I changed myself. Senior high school, I must say, the place where it all happened. My ever changing personality grew stronger here. Society was the one who judge me, the one I feared the most. But then life hit me hard on the face and I realized I couldn't stay like that forever. I learned how to be independent. To be so important for at least a single human being. To stand on my own without having to hold on to anyone. No more insecurity, I act as if that word never existed in my life dictionary before. I became someone full of passion, ambition, talents, and thirst of success. I know I'm still far from perfect, but I think it's safe to say that this time, I am the one that society fears.
So for those people out there who are still feeling so insecure about your body size, please don't mind much. If you /think/ that your appearance is no good (tho in this context I don't know who you compare yourself to), instead of letting your confidence level zero, you have to wear them exactly on your face. Never ever let a single comment or word thrown by those people drops your confidence. Enjoy this life, in whatever shape your body is, for God has made you beautifully this way. Personally for me, it doesn't matter how perfect someone is on the outside if he doesn't worth a shot in the inside ;) Just win the game with confidence, and you're all set!
Bad hair day, but still pulled it off because I'm fab as hell
I will always have a thing for handmade necklaces ♥
I don't understand the way I style myself. I guess my brain is stuck with one basic color when I'm picking my outfits. Usually I'll go for the shoes first, or the dress, or even a necklace to make combination for the rest of the outfit. Just like this one; one quick glance at the dress and my mind will go for all R E D. And pairing them with anything in red seems like I'm being in auto-pilot mode. People say this as color blocking (except the part that my dress still has patterns remaining). I guess I just love it this way when the color of my outfit matches perfectly with the rest of what I wear, like the shoes and accessories. What do you think? :)