July 15, 2017

Hold us together

 Nevada dress, unbranded bag, unbranded shoes

I'm sooo happy to be able to post proper outfit post again! :D It's been 17 billion ages since the last time I actually stood up in front of a wall, dressing up and setting timer on my DSLR and took head-to-toe photos. It feels good to be back on track! I'm still in Bekasi, enjoying every last bit of my soon going to an end holiday :( I'm in my final year now and expected to graduate around June next year omg. Time flies so fast! I can't believe three years ago I had just graduated from high school, doing placement tests etc to get into university, I was so thrilled to start experiencing one of the best phase of my life. And here I am now, trying (not so) hard not to run away from all my responsibilities.

Being in early 20s (I'm 21 now, remember?) means a lot to me. It's becoming a burden now that I still haven't figured out of what I'm going to do with my life later after I graduate. Which probably that's one of the biggest reason why I don't think graduating soon is a good choice. Almost all of my friends have at least one experience of working in the real law industry, and almost all of them too have participated in more than one law competition. Unlike me, who, apparently, gave all of my time just for my art group. I mean I can't lie that even after being a law student, I'm still an artist at heart. I like to perform, I like to create things, and it helps to ease my mind when university life is becoming a pain in the ass. Which happens most of the time :/ If they were to graduate soon, they already had long plan ahead of what they were going to do next. Again, unlike me, who probably will go 180 degree different from the rest of my friends. I keep telling myself that it's totally okay to go the other way where the place is not so crowded. Going different way is good, as long as I'm ready and quick to adapt because now I understand how fast life can be.


Updates on the love department; nothing has come up. I don't know if it's a bad thing or a good thing. It maybe both. My view on the word 'love' has totally changed the moment I read my friend's writings about it. That love is just a chemical reaction. And when I see it not being something that is uncontrollable by me, rather it's something science and of course can be controlled, falling in and out of love seems very ordinary. I don't know what's the fuss is all about and we need to stop making love as an issue although I admit that it's one of the biggest emotion that often drives our artistic part. Because I myself, write poem and other stories based on my view on love. But in real life, it's getting too overrated that I'm getting sick of everyone talking about love and love and love. It only takes one bad, nasty break up to get me traumatized of being in a relationship because everything can go wrong in building a relationship. Despite being madly in love now (and he doesn't even know it yet), I really don't force myself to be with him. Or find a way to make us together. A friend of mine asked me the reason why I don't chase him like a hungry hyena. It's simply because I don't have to date him to tell him that I love him and care for him. Right? If I really loved him, I would let him grow, be there for him when he needed me, cheered for him during his best moments, and be sad over his failures and loss. I have learned to emphasize myself in my own life, to stop giving room for other people to be in charge of my own happiness. And as a friendly note, you should do this too! It will give your life a whole lot better meaning! :)


So before we part, let's talk about this outfit! I used to hate going somewhere in skirts because somehow I feel like it's not liberating me from my excessive movements; like running and jumping around because I love to chase my friends jokingly. And I used to label myself as this tomboy girl who would swallow poison before I put those dresses and skirt on! >:( But as the years gone by, I grow up and explore new style. I fall in and out of fashion trends, and find my own signature style, the style that makes me comfortable and boosts my confidence. Surprisingly enough, dresses and skirts are one of my signature style ensemble! :D Nowadays I feel so nice walking in one, dressed up in one. I guess that's the magic of clothing, when I wear pants, I feel free. When I wear skirts, I feel pretty! It's not something that's better than the other kind of style, just something that now I can go with without that grudge feeling lmao. Also if you haven't really noticed, I'm wearing a super short shorts too and it's visible here. That's why I love this dress so much! It's combining two of a different style. Sadly such clothing can't be worn around campus because who allows their student to show off that much skin anyway???

Here's a little song for you to enjoy before I close the post. WILD - Hold Us Together ;)

50 comments:

  1. I love your dress, thanks for sharing, you look stunning!!!

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  2. so nice post :)
    have a nice weekend :)

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  3. This is so nice!

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  4. So cute!

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    1. Hihi, thank you Eleine!

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  5. Very sweet dress! reminds my school time!
    KireiKana

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    1. Wow, your school has the coolest uniform ever then!

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  6. That's a lovely dress, you've layered it nicely with the shirt and the shorts! I hope you find out what you want to do after your studies - it's hard picking a job but you'll figure out what you want to do eventually :)

    Hope you have had a great weekend and are having a nice start to the week!

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    1. Aw, thank you so much, Mica, that means a lot coming from you!

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  7. Thanks a lot :D

    you look so cute :D In love with your dress

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  8. You look beautiful Dear:)
    Have a good day!

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    1. Thank you so much!
      I hope you have a great day too!

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  9. Such a cute outfit! You look lovely!

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    1. Oh, look at you, stunner.

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  10. So pretty, lovely check dress!
    Kisses, Paola.
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    1. Yay, thank you, Paola!

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  11. Your outfit is really cute! :) xx

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    1. Hihi, thank you, Nevena!

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  12. Loving the plaid babe!

    xoxo
    Rina Samantha
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  13. Amazing photos :)
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  14. I love it a lot!


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  15. Great outfit.

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  16. Cute outfit! Would you like to follow each other, just let me know :)

    Asta | astadek.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you, Asta! Yes, I'd love to :)

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  17. Adorable outfit, this dress is very cute :)

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  18. I agree with you when you say going a different way is good. The road less travelled makes all the difference (as Robert Frost would say). In my own life the road less travelled has always proved more fruitful and made me more grateful for this crazy universe. Life is gonna work itself out on its on terms girl, just go with your gut and let it do the rest. Cute shoes!

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    Chanel | Je M'appelle Chanel

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    1. Thank you so much for kind words, Chanel. Indeed, if we all take the same road, it would be too crowded. I love you, hope you have a good day!

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  19. Pretty and sweet look, dear! Enjoy your life, and do what you love, babe ;)

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    1. Thank's a bunch, Tabitha!

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  20. Cute stuff, sweetie! xoxo

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